A Reminder of What Counts

By Kathryn Jean Lopez Published on May 8, 2023

On a visit to Hungary, Pope Francis recently made headlines for talking about peace efforts between Ukraine and Russia. But some of his messages were about a war in the West, a war occurring in human hearts.

In a meeting with young people, he said quite bluntly: “Nowadays there is a great temptation to be satisfied with a cellphone and a few friends. … You cannot shut yourselves away in small groups of friends, talking only on your cellphone.”

He talked about our current culture, which tells us we “have to be fast, efficient and practically perfect, like machines β€” even though … we are not machines! Then, we often find that we run out of gas and are at a loss for what to do. We have to learn how to stop and fill our tanks, to recharge our batteries.”

Here in the United States, the epidemic of loneliness and suicide is so great that the surgeon general is recommending religious faith as a possible solution.

Attempts to Fill an Interior Emptiness

Speaking to academics during his Hungary trip, the pope warned about this issue, discussing the “erosion of communal bonds, with the result that alienation and anxiety are no longer merely existential crises, but societal problems.”

He asked a pertinent question:

How many isolated individuals, albeit immersed in social media, are becoming less and less social themselves, and often resort, as if in a vicious circle, to the consolations of technology to fill their interior emptiness? Living at a frenzied pace, prey to a ruthless capitalism, they become painfully conscious of their vulnerability in a society where outward speed goes hand-in-hand with inward fragility. This is a grave problem today.

Winning the War in the Human Heart

To the academics, he talked about the importance of awe. To the young people, he talked about dreaming and aiming higher. To the civil authorities, he challenged working toward a society “centered on the human person” and praised Hungary for encouraging people to have babies and setting a public policy aimed at helping families flourish. But that policy is unusual in the West.

Please Support The Stream: Equipping Christians to Think Clearly About the Political, Economic, and Moral Issues of Our Day.

The pontiff also talked about the importance of humility. “The mystery of life, after all, is disclosed to those who are concerned with the little things,” he said. Culture can preserve and defend our humanity, he continued. “It immerses us in contemplation and shapes persons who are not prey to the fashions of the moment, but solidly grounded in the reality of things.”

Reality is not reflected in the hyper-partisan ideological silos of social media. Not a few of our problems today could be solved by a return to the community around us, a prioritization of the family and a remembrance that life is a precious gift, not to be squandered or rejected.

Pope Francis will be in Portugal this summer for World Youth Day, including at the Marian shrine in Fatima. The message there will focus on prayer and turning away from sin. He will likely sound these notes as part of his continued reality check for a Western people often living in a state of spiritual numbness, or even darkness. As the pope reminds us, we have a duty to reach out a hand and shine a light.

The more interesting parts of the pope’s talks aren’t usually headlines, but they can change lives.


Kathryn Jean Lopez is senior fellow at the National Review Institute, editor-at-large of National Review magazine and author of the new book A Year With the Mystics: Visionary Wisdom for Daily Living. She is also chair of Cardinal Dolan’s pro-life commission in New York, and is on the board of the University of Mary. She can be contacted at [email protected].

Print Friendly, PDF & Email

Like the article? Share it with your friends! And use our social media pages to join or start the conversation! Find us on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, MeWe and Gab.

Alert: Pray for Our Elected Officials
Bunni Pounds
More from The Stream
Connect with Us