My Angry Pro-Choice Critic Called It Lying. He Was Wrong

By David Mills Published on April 18, 2018

“Bravo for lying through omission and appeal to emotion.” The young man didn’t like my Look Out, Pro-Choicers, You’re in Danger, published last Friday. Commenting on The Stream’s Facebook page, my angry pro-choice critic said, “Thanks for misrepresenting the arguments for choice w/r/t abortion and placing it only in terms of your values and perspective. No mention of privacy, bodily autonomy, viability, personhood, or difficulty of policing.”

A little cranky, but a better response than the older man who also commented. He blared: “It is NOT a baby any more than an egg is a chicken!!! YOU RELIGIOUS FANATICS need to STOP trying to force your misguided beliefs on the MAJORITY!!!” And at least it was more detailed than the man who loftily declared: “If a woman has not made her pregnancy your business, then it is not your business.”

True, you can’t generalize much from Facebook discussions. But you can learn something from the way people argue, especially if you read a lot of them. The young man uses three common pro-choice techniques, which come close to being tricks. They are: 1) Avoid the argument by claiming we’re just manipulating emotions. 2) Dismiss our arguments because we’re just “imposing our values.” And 3) Divert attention from the argument to some other subject, and if you can, try to make the pro-lifers look simple-minded while you’re at it.

We’ll skip the two other men’s responses. There’s not much to be said about the rant and the lofty declaration. They’re not arguing, these two. They’re saying they don’t need to argue, because the pro-choice position is so obviously right. Pro-choicers do that a lot. If we see reason to respond — and we won’t always — we respond by saying, “No that’s wrong,” then explaining why.

Let’s look at the annoyed young man’s claims. You might want to read Look Out, Pro-Choicers, You’re in Danger before continuing.

Appealing to Emotion

First, he claims I’m appealing to emotion, not argument. In which he is wrong. My argument is a simple one: That if you make personal desire the criterion for letting someone live, you make it the criterion for someone else letting you live. My critic may think this a bad argument, but it’s an argument. Emotion doesn’t enter into it.

Here’s the tricky part, though. We argue about truths, about realities. Human beings respond to some truths and realities emotionally. We’re supposed to. We’re made to. Aristotle pointed this out almost 2,500 years ago. We should feel happy when things are good and sad when things are bad. We should feel anger when things are cruel or unjust.

In my article I pointed out that the woman who says she would have aborted a disabled son because “That’s not the child I wanted” established the principle that he can use. He can say when she’s old and sick, “That’s not the mother I wanted” and let her die. That’s simple logic. But as a normal human being, you should feel revulsion at the idea of a son letting his mother die for that reason. Because it’s wicked. And if you feel that way, as I hope you do, you should feel that way about the mother aborting her son for that reason.

So yes, I chose that example because it has an emotional effect. Because emotions can help us feel the truths to which argument leads us. That’s why prolifers show pictures of unborn children. It helps some people really feel and really come to believe the fact — the fact for which we argue convincingly — that the unborn child is a human being with human rights.

Arguing From My Own Perspective

Second, the annoyed young man complains I’m “arguing in terms of [my] values and perspective.” Well, yes, yes I am.

As he himself is. Everyone who says something seriously will say it in terms of his values and perspective. How else would you do it? You’re not playing a game. You’re writing to persuade, to change minds, to get people to do something. You believe certain things to be good, what he calls “values.” You believe certain things to be true, what he calls “perspective.”

How else would anyone argue? Seriously. I can jump off the ground because it’s solid. I can’t jump anywhere floating in space. Arguments work the same way. You have to start with something settled. I start with the “value” that innocent human life must be protected. I start with the “perspective” that the unborn child is an innocent human life. Then I draw the logical implications.

He can only disagree if he starts somewhere else, with other “values” and “perspectives.” He has to have solid ground to jump from. And fine. But he can’t try to shut down the discussion by declaring that I shouldn’t start where I think I should. That’s to say I can’t argue unless I already agree with him.

Ignoring Other Questions

Third, he claims I didn’t speak about other important questions. He lists “privacy, bodily autonomy, viability, personhood, or difficulty of policing.” And no, no I didn’t.

Because I was making one simple point in the space I had. I had about 750 to 800 words. That’s not a lot when you take up tricky subjects. I was not writing a long paper or a book. Publishing works this way: I write on this question here, you write on that question there, others write on other questions in other places, and together we kind of cover the subject. Readers read what they want to.

It’s not an argument against one claim that it doesn’t deal with other claims. And I could say something about each of his subjects. Pro-life thinkers have covered all of them many times over. What I’d say wouldn’t make him happy. Each question has an answer that sustains the right to life of the unborn child.

Here we have, in one angry Facebook commenter, a good example of three ways the pro-abortionists try to control the debate. They claim that pro-life arguments aren’t real arguments. Why do they do this? In part, because they know we have the better arguments.



For David’s articles in the Human Life Review and its website, click here. Follow him on Twitter a@DavidMillsWrtng.

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  • Ray

    Is there ever a reasonable, rational, peaceable, humble, self controlled, objection to the truth?

  • Stephen D

    Fine article. Reminds me of a famous verse: “Come now, let us reason together, says the Lord” (Isaiah 1:18).

  • JP

    Every pregnancy is everyone’s business just as every murder is everyone’s business.

  • Andrew Mason

    Regarding the example of personal desires being the threshold for abortion and establishing the principle for decision making. Can’t a similar approach be applied to child rearing and aged parent caring? Parents who abandon their children – stick them in daycare and other such activities or centres that free them from needing to actually raise them, should expect their children to abandon them in their old age. And when an aged parent finds themself stuck in an aged person home with nary a visit from family they will only have themself to blame. It may be reprehensible, but it is the standard established by the parent.

  • When you are literally defending the amputation and the immolation of a human being, your arguments do not cohere. We should expect self-deception and insanity from supporters of child-murder.

  • Freedom Rider

    How about this argument. “We hold (in America as our foundation and primary law) these truths self evident (also obvious), that all men (and thus everything else) is CREATED…by thier CREATOR.. with (the reason for and existence of..) with INALIANABLE (God given) RIGHTS .” That (refers back to self evident truth or – no argument acceptable, it’s obvious) among (not limited to) #1- LIFE, (and because of that one) LIBERTY, and the persuit of happiness . that to secure these
    rights ( and only created ;by the CREATOR rights by the way) governments ( OURS!!) are instituted… (AND – big finish) that (self evident again) if govenments ( people in) become destructive of these ends (which they have here) it is the RIGHT OF THE PEOPLE TO ALTER OR ABOLISH ….AND REPLACE (them – we ain’t talken ‘elections’ here gang !!) That makes abortion and all who practice it involved in internal distriction of the USA – THATSTREASON (self evident truth) !!

  • Freedom Rider

    SEDITION IS ALSO SUPPORTING THAT DESTRUCTION IN ANY WAY. SUBVERSION IS THE DOING SUBVERTS THE PRINCIPLE WORLD VIEW OR LAW (exactly that here), and TREASON IS DESCRIBED BELOW . and I misspelled here and there and ran words together. Doesn’t change a thing./ We have sedition, subversion, and TREASON here and that needs to be addressed – by who? THE PEOPLE – you and me by law have the right. Go to accountabilityrevolution dot come for the legal process and how to s.

  • Mark Geraty

    He can say when she’s old and sick, “That’s not the mother I wanted” and let her die. That’s simple logic. But as a normal human being, you should feel revulsion at the idea of a son letting his mother die for that reason.

    Just a technical point of order. “Letting” someone die is not the same thing as killing her, regardless of intent. Willful negligence through the withholding of ordinary medical care for the purpose of the individual dying is killing. Allowing someone to die from withdrawal of care that is inordinate or futile is “letting” someone die.

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