Father of Columbine Victim Rachel Scott Talks About Rachel’s Challenge, Meeting the President and Loving People

Rachel Joy Scott, the first person killed at Columbine High School on April 20,1999.

By Nancy Flory Published on April 15, 2018

On Monday, May 28, LIFE Today will feature Darrell Scott, father of Columbine victim Rachel Scott. She was killed in the massacre on April 20, 1999. Darrell and his wife, Sandy, started Rachel’s Challenge the next year. Rachel’s Challenge is a series of programs that help “Mak[e] schools safer, more connected places where bullying and violence are replaced with kindness and respect; and where learning and teaching are awakened to their fullest.”

Darrell sat down with The Stream’s Nancy Flory to talk about Rachel’s Challenge and his recent meeting with President Trump.

Rachel’s Legacy

“Too many people want to harvest, not enough people want to water.” Darrell Scott sat at the table, legs crossed, talking about his foundation, Rachel’s Challenge. He views it not as a ministry, but as form of “watering” the “hard ground” of the world, something the world desperately needs.

He calls the foundation a “spiritual organization.” “No one can deny that because we see miracles happen. We’ve seen autistic kids that haven’t talked for years open up and start talking. We see forgiveness take place, healing of relationships.” Scott says he knows of at least seven school shootings that didn’t take happen of Rachel’s challenge. And, he says, Rachel’s legacy prevents around 150 suicides a year.

Rachel Joy Scott was the first person killed when Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold entered Columbine High School and began shooting. They killed 13 people and wounded 24 others.

A Chain Reaction

Rachel left behind six diaries. Rachel’s Challenge is based on her writings. “She challenged her reader to start what she called a chain reaction of kindness and compassion,” says Scott. “So a lot of our program is built around very emotional, true stories” of Rachel’s.

Rachel’s Challenge program called Chain Reaction is based on Rachel’s statement. “I have this theory,” wrote Rachel, “that if one person would go out of their way to show compassion it will start a chain reaction of the same. People will never know how far a little kindness will go.”

That theory has been put to the test millions of times in the 18 years since Rachel’s death. The success of the programs caught the president’s eye after Parkland’s school shooting on Valentine’s day this year. Scott was asked to meet with President Trump in February along with family members of the shooting victims. “I went to be supportive of the Parkland parents and students who were there,” he says.

He realized that nothing had changed politically since Columbine. “[T]hey’re talking the same old chatter for twenty years — it’s been more gun control. I’ve said it over and over again, that a gun didn’t wake up one day and decide to kill my daughter. Two young men planned it for a year. … It isn’t the instrument; it’s the person behind the instrument.” Scott adds that we have to “deal with why they do it or with the heart of the person first.”

What He Told President Trump

So what did he tell President Trump? “I said if we focus on connectedness we will have success. If we focus too much on diversity, we wind up having division. … If we focus too much on unity, we create compromise. But if we focus on connectedness, relatedness, then we can appreciate diversity, even celebrate some of that diversity and work toward unity.”

Connectedness involves doing simple acts of kindness for others. It also means reaching out to others who are alone. Rachel wrote in her diary about a girl who sat alone at a table in the school cafeteria. Rachel sat with her. “From that story of the girl in the cafeteria, we have tens of thousands of Friends of Rachel clubs all over the world,” marveled Scott. “They never let a kid sit alone in the cafeteria — so little things can be done at school, like reaching out to people that are feeling left out.”

People don’t have to approve of others’ beliefs and behaviors to accept them, Scott was quick to point out. “You can disagree and accept someone. You can be diametrically opposed to everything someone else believes and have a friendship with them, and I’ve found that to be true. That’s the beginning of love, it’s to accept.”

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“We can’t love someone if we don’t accept them,” he continued. “The church is taught to love and sometimes we don’t accept people and they think that means if their lifestyle is different from mine, I can’t accept them. Yes you can. You don’t have to agree and you don’t have to approve of what they do, but you must accept them if you’re going to truly love them.”

‘Love People’

A couple of gang members demonstrated Scott’s point. At the beginning of the day in a school hosting Rachel’s Challenge, they yelled obscenities at one another. By the end of the day, they were sobbing in each other’s arms. “These are tough gang members,” says Scott. “You want to talk about miracles, [that was] a miracle.”

“I’d like to give a challenge,” Scott says just before he left. “I don’t want to be offensive, [but] get rid of all the stinking religiosity and love people. … We’ve got to get out of our heads and get into our hearts. Let God’s love through us love people.”

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  • Ray

    When I think of kindness and compassion, I think that it’s as old and basic as Job 29, anyway. Job had an awesome ministry to his community. No wonder he was a target, and a man who carried a lot of responsibility. If you lived in his city, and you were bullied, would you come to the gate of his city…that is, if you could not on your own resolve the situation? Schools should have this kind of ministry of what I like to think of as ministering reconciliation, or delivering judges, who will not hear evil for the sake of evil, but would ask for mercy from a bully on behalf of another, if this is what would be right, doing the same, one for another, without partiality or hypocrisy, verifying all he can, and properly accessing the situation, knowing about the wisdom of God, and earnestly seeking it, by faith, and waiting on the Lord for his answers. Imagine an entire class that had that kind of class, together. Even if they lost somebody, wouldn’t they know where they are, and that there is really no need to sorrow? Blessed are the peacemakers. Jesus said. (see Matthew 5:9) The fruit of the Spirit should be their reward, unto life eternal.

  • Ray

    Right on.

  • Ray

    I’ve heard that fatherlessness is a common problem in America, these days, and I thought of that when I read Job 29:12.

  • Greg Olson

    What does the sentence “Scott says he knows of at least seven school shootings that didn’t take happen of Rachel’s challenge” mean? I think you need to talk to your editor.

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