We don’t necessarily need every future detail precisely pinned down and organized when we walk down the aisle—in fact it’s probably more helpful to accept the fact that some questions will never have answers. But perhaps we’d feel more ready if we asked truly critical questions before we decide to commit to someone for the rest of our lives.

“There is so much about yourself and your partner that will change over the years—your interests may shift and your personality will develop further—but typicallyvalues are lifelong,” shares Laurie Davis, Founder and CEO of eFlirt and author ofLove @ First Click. “Understanding your partner’s values and what is important to them before marriage is important because of this.”

So whether you’re in the midst of early dating euphoria, or deep in a longer-term relationship with the “m word” becoming more and more relevant, here are five questions to ask yourself and discuss with your partner.

Read the article “5 Questions You Need to Ask Before You Get Married” on verilymag.com.